Monthly Archives: February 2010

Personal: Reminiscing About “Big Hair Days”

A few weeks ago, I flew to Dallas to reconnect with my work colleagues from 20+ years ago. My first real job was with “Technical Recruiting Associates”. Yes, for the first four years out of college I was a “headhunter,” finding top-notch computer programmers for my favorite clients, including Price Waterhouse, IBM and American Express…. Read more »

You have inner peace if you can…

If you can start the day without caffeine, If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains, If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles, If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it, If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to… Read more »

New Year Creation

Below are four related processes for a clarifying your 2010 vision. Since each of us is wired differently, it’s useful to find the most effective visioning strategy for you. Some people LOVE to write goals, others avoid the process. Some love details, while others are big picture people. Some people LOVE visualizations, and yet others do best… Read more »

Inner Peace and Love – The 5 Love Languages

People express and receive love in different ways.  Dr. Gary Chapman identifies these as “the five languages of love”. 1.  Quality Time – Attention, quality conversation, time spent together doing something meaningful or enjoyable. Time is Love.  Attention is love. 2.  Words of Affirmation – “You are beautiful”.  Words of acknowledgment, encouragement, or appreciation.  “You… Read more »

Inner Peace through Acceptance

Accepting YOU or Accepting YOUR EGO? Ok, let’s face it.  We LOVE it when everyone in our lives loves and accepts us unconditionally. That’s a true friend, right?  Or is it…? When we’re running late or irresponsible, and they don’t give us a hard time.  When we’re a mess emotionally, and they listen to our… Read more »