Remember Me?

You haven’t heard from me in awhile.  But, I’m back!

If you’re newer to my community, a warm welcome to YOU!  Looking forward to connecting with you over the months and years to come.  Thank you for your patience.

So……I’ve been on sabbatical.  Did you miss me?

It was both intentional, and unintentional.  I’d been saying for years, I wanted to take a year off.  And well, I partly did.  I stopped writing my newsletter.  I stopped accepting interviews.  I stopped doing joint ventures with colleagues.  I stopped offering group coaching programs and events, and I stopped marketing my audio programs and book.

However, my mission for helping people experience exponentially more inner peace as they’re living into their highest potential — has only grown stronger.

I have continued coaching clients in growing their businesses, finding balance and peace in the chaos, and tackling the challenges along life’s path.  But, aside from clients and interaction on social media… I’ve kept a low profile.

It has been nice having fewer business commitments.

That’s changing now.  I’m accepting interview requests again (look for a link next week to one I did recently).  I’m working on a new book proposal.  I’m writing this newsletter! (Glory be!)  And I’m even putting together a special promotional package to support your success and inner peace for Black Friday.  Whew!  Feels good to be back.

However, it’s a little awkward given my last newsletter was over 18 months ago, when my family and I were living in Israel for 4 months.  If you missed that update, CLICK HERE.  Truly a priceless experience.  I’m forever changed.

We have since moved back to the good ‘ol USA, and eventually resettled about 5 minutes from our last home in Laguna Niguel, CA.  There is so much I miss about living in Tel Aviv, but it’s good to be back to my English speaking country, closer to friends and family, familiar grocery stores and the conveniences of (for a busy mom of twins, this is a life saver!)

One of the gifts of stepping out of the “limelight,” has been full immersion into life itself, complete with highs and lows, and everything in between.  The last year has been full of uncertainty, messiness, tantrums (mostly my kids!), and a few health scares.  We moved into a less than ideal home because the housing market was so expensive.  My husband took over as CEO of his company requiring frequent travel.  Oh yeah, being a mother to 5 year old twins, all the parenting stuff, household maintenance and juggling a business in the mix can be frustrating, exhausting and overwhelming.  Life amplified.  (((Sigh))). Hey, I thought sabbaticals were suppose to be relaxing, reflective and restorative?  LOL!

If you struggle with stress, overwhelm, and uncertainty and struggle to find inner peace in the midst of life’s challenges, I understand now more than ever.  It’s not easy.  In fact, it can be messy and hard!   But, that doesn’t mean shouldn’t try our best every day.  To transform the stress.  To find peace in any moment we can.  And to push the edges of our potential.

Life is full of contrast. Highs and lows.  Yin and yang. Success and failure.  Stress and peace.  Vulnerability and confidence.  Being private and public.

And even though the past 18 months were super challenging in countless ways…I wouldn’t be painting an accurate picture if I didn’t acknowledge the abundance of magic moments, laughter, silliness, adventurous travels, snuggles, insights, learning, fun, sweet joy and flow along the way.  And, after some rougher “re-integration months,” somewhere along the way, I fell back into loving my life.  Ahhhhhhh!

Regardless, the question for me is always, “How do I find inner peace in THIS moment?”  You could say, it’s my ongoing, walking meditation.

Am I always resting in a Zen-like state of inner peace?   Absolutely not!

But, it’s all given me practice in finding inner peace in any moment.  Sometimes I impress myself with the ease to which inner peace arises.  Other times, I’m humbled by the emotions that get the best of me.  Do you relate?  I used to think that because I’m America’s Inner Peace Coach I was supposed to “have it all together” ALL of the time.  HA!!!

But alas, you’re going to get the “real me.”  Blemishes, mistakes, struggles and all.  And through the sharing of my experiences, along with lots of tools, tips and powerful strategies, I hope it gives you ideas of how to dance with your own challenges and access more fulfillment, joy and peace along the way.  Even if the middle of a tantrum (your child’s or yours). We’re all in this together.

Okay… so the awkwardness of “breaking my silence” is over. Right?


Last week I was interviewed for a podcast, and I wrote this article for them.  Seems like the perfect way to kick off this re-entry, because it emphasizes the importance of “making inner peace your #1 goal.” Try it.

Finding Inner Peace in Stressful Times

We all live busy lives, and typically, the busier we are, the more stressful life typically is. The American Psychological Association’s (APA) Stress in America™ survey revealed that 77% of people regularly experience physical symptoms caused by stress, and 73% regularly experience psychological symptoms caused by stress.  And 48% feel their stress has increased over the past five years, and that was before the election.  Ugh! Work, family and countless demands compete for our attention in what often feels like, too short of a day.   Add self-doubt, uncertainty, emotional reactions, a crazy political climate, and inner peace seems like a far-fetched fantasy.

But, what if it didn’t have to be that way? Instead, what if you could bring a sense of grounded, calm and ease with you throughout your day?  Breathe that in for a moment.  I’m serious.

We’re so conditioned to feel stress, pressure and resistance.  Everywhere.  But, if you’re like most people, you’re sick and tired of living on adrenaline, feeling pressure from every direction (including yourself), and living on fumes! Your mind and sense of well-being is hijacked by bosses, customers, the media, Facebook, and even friends and family.  I want to give you the secret to taking back your life.

It’s making inner peace your #1 goal. And, it’s easier than you might imagine.

I invite you into a new experience.

Imagine for a minute, you can easily access inner peace within yourself at ANY moment. You’re able to quickly return to inner peace in any moment you choose. You embrace a handful of daily practices and systems to allow inner calm to flow naturally.  Your most important business and personal goals are clear and they are fueled by inspiration and enthusiasm.  And you actively take steps each week to eliminate and evolve through stressors, allowing that sweet, centered, powerful part of yourself to guide your ever-amazing unfolding life.

Remember the scene in “When Harry Met Sally” and all the ladies in the restaurant watched Sally in ecstasy, and said, “I’ll have what she’s having?” If you’re ready to embrace an alternate reality, I can help.  You really can enjoy the ecstasy of inner peace anytime, anywhere.

Here are 4 ways to start finding more inner peace, even in stressful times.

1. Make inner peace your #1 goal.
Years ago, when a friend shared the notion of making inner peace my #1 goal, my first reaction was “inner peace, inner shmeash.” The idea of inner peace seemed boring, unexciting to this fast moving, Type A, goal-oriented gal.  But months later, stress mounted from every direction, financial and career pressure, relationship break-ups and moving into a new home.  All of a sudden, inner peace sounded VERY appealing.  If you want to find more inner peace, you’ve got to make it a priority.  And it feels a gazillion times better than annoying stress.

2.  Notice the relationship between resistance and stress.
Life circumstances aren’t inherently stressful, but thinking makes it so.

“People are disturbed not by a thing, but by their perception of a thing.”
— Epictetus

If you aren’t experiencing peace, you’ll quickly notice where there is stress, there is resistance.

Resistance is pushing mentally or emotionally against something.  What are you pushing against? Worry is resisting a future that hasn’t happened.  Self-doubt is resisting your competence.  Loneliness is resisting being by yourself. Regret is resisting the past.  Stress is resisting what is.  When we resist reality as it is, we diminish inner peace.

Often, by simply becoming aware of resistance, we can consciously relax it, allowing the connection to our inner calm to return.

3.  Be willing to respond to stress with calm.
Instead of tolerating stress as an underlying resistance to your day, what if stress became a little reminder to return to your calm and peaceful center?  How cool would that be?
Breathing is your greatest ally.

Take this mini inner peace challenge.

Notice afternoon stress creeping in? Stop and BREATHE.  Take a DEEP breath in.  HOLD 1, 2, 3, 4 and exhale, and drop your shoulders. Breathing is free. You can do it anytime, anyplace. And it relaxes resistance.  It works.

Feeling pressure to achieve a sales or business goal?  Stop and BREATHE. 
Often times, taking our foot off the accelerator and coming back to inner peace, allows creative solutions to arise, sharpens focus and allows greater productivity.

When my child throws a temper tantrum, I can make a choice – to resist this reality or embrace it for what it is – something 5 year olds do.  I don’t have to like the reality, and I don’t.  But, resisting it, and contracting inside, makes it worse. Instead, I can breathe.  I can find my center.  And from this place of calm, I can respond in a more productive and effective manner.

You can do this too. It starts with a willingness and intention for inner peace. Then, like anything, it’s about practice.

4.  Set yourself up for success with self-care.
All of the tips thus far become monumentally more challenging when we’re sleep deprived, feeling under the weather, and aren’t meeting our personal needs. It’s far easier to access inner peace, when you get solid sleep, exercise regularly, eat nutritious foods and take time for yourself each day. Reading, meditating, and relaxing without the distraction of TV, news, or social media helps reset our nervous system so we can truly respond to life and the demands around us. Make these habits a priority, and you’ll see attainable “inner peace” is.